If You’re So Much Better, Why the Subliminals? | by Kerisha Deans

If You’re So Much Better, Why the Subliminals? |  by Kerisha Deans

If You’re So Much Better, Why the Subliminals? | by Kerisha Deans

I am not convinced; not even in the least bit.  So you think you are better than her? Guess what? You just showed me that she is so much better than you.  She is embracing herself, and that is her God given right.  Every woman should embrace herself, no matter what, no matter who.  What am I talking about you may ask. The constant social media subliminal from one woman about how another woman thinks she is beautiful, etc.   The only thing I see here is an insecure woman who is threatened by the fact that another woman is relinquishing in her amazing womanly gifts (as all women should).

See that is the type of wrongfully insecure woman that cannot have a seat at my table.  I don’t want to know you, hang out with you, or even listen to you.  Lady, you are simply just too shallow and delusional for my taste.  Perhaps her esteem intimidates you because you thought you were the only one with “IT?” It is so clear that you’ve bee fooled; perhaps your narcissistic parents brought up another narcissistic human? Sad, I say.

Women, why can’t you support each other? Why must the success, ambition, and beauty of another woman make you feel as though someone is coming for your imaginary throne? If you were indeed sitting on a throne, then you would know that no one can take the place of an actual queen.  If you really think your work was exemplary (as much as you try to convince the public), then someone putting out similar work should not scare you at all (you know, since you are so much better and all).  Don’t allow arrogance to trick you into thinking that you are the only one who has thoughts, ideas, and high enough self-esteem to believe, “damn I am the sh*t;” you will be sadly mistaken. Focus on you; concentrate on building your greatness instead of working to dim someone else’s light. Those around you will notice your insecurity and jealousy, and it makes most so uncomfortable that they will not call you out on it.  Don’t try to outshine someone else; work on surpassing your character from the previous second, minute, hour, day, year, etc.; you get the picture.

This was a much needed in tough love from a kind heart that hates to be so hard on you.

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